Attitude toward sex during menstruation in a modern progressive society varies widely.
Nowadays, sex during menstruation does not bear almost no health hazard and military knowledge monogamous couples.
Long ago women even temporarily isolated from society because it was thought that the bleeding may attract wild animals, endanger the whole tribe or village. In some cultures, it was decided to grant a woman with menstruation special magical force capable of imposing the evil eye, damage or disease.
Until now, the religious injunction prohibits male representatives of Judaism and Islam to engage in sexual relations with a woman during menstruation. Prescriptions for orthodox Jews is to abstain from sex as during menstruation and the next seven days. A woman is considered "unclean", therefore any rapprochement with it is prohibited. Following deeply rooted in the consciousness of rules, many believe abstinence during menstruation inviolable rule.
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Constraints and drivers
The issue of sexual relations during menstruation sooner or later becomes relevant for all pairs. A considerable role in this issue played especially sexual activity partners and well-being of women. Only 25% of women do not experience pain during menstruation. About 7% is very difficult to tolerate during this period, and even forced to adhere to bed rest. There are several factors that can both restrain the desire of men and women, and to enhance physical attraction during menstruation.
Factors "braking":
Poor health of women, men care about them;
Shyness women, a sense of "filth";
Aesthetic considerations and disgust, repel someone one or both partners.
Factors gain:
Sharply increased sexual desire in some women, attributable to the individual physiological parameters (during menstruation in a lot of the hormone estradiol released, enhancing sex drive);
For men, menstruation is often a symbol of femininity, the epitome of femininity and the ability to respond to the original primitive instincts.
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Arguments in favor of sex during menstruation
For many partners (mainly women) use and pleasant sensation of having sex during menstruation outweigh the potential harm. Sexual intercourse is able to:
Relieves pain and irritability. During orgasm, uterine cramping may reduce its swelling, so the pain goes away.
Reduces the amount of blood discharge. Sex (especially with strong orgasm) can accelerate the completion of menstrual bleeding. The body will be released from the endometrium, which must be separated for the menstrual cycle. If sexual contact is made the natural massage of the uterus, it begins to decline faster and get rid of all accumulated in it. Accelerate exfoliation of dead cells of the endometrium may be contained in the semen prostaglandins affecting the blood vessels.
Contribute to the preparation of some women more vivid sensations. This is due to good wetting of the vagina and its greater sensitivity. There is blood flow to the genitals, vagina swells and narrows.
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Arguments against sex during menstruation
The main argument, holding many from sex during menstruation, is the risk to women's and men's health to some extent. Indeed, there is some risk, but it does not regard all of the fair sex. In general, limit sexual activity during menstruation can only reluctance partners or poor health of women.
Modern medicine claims that for healthy women menstruation is not a contraindication to sexual relations, subject to the relevant rules of hygiene by both partners.
Here's what risks should be taken into account:
During menstruation the cervix is slightly opened and becomes easily accessible for penetration infections and increased risk of various inflammations. During sex in the womb can fall flora of the external genitalia, and perineal region. A favorable outcome is possible, if a woman has a good immunity and has no abnormalities of the cervix. Especially at risk women with chronic inflammatory diseases (eg, erosion of the cervix).
When the contents of unprotected sex with vaginal blood flow can get into the urethra partner and cause discomfort or even inflammation.
Sex during menstruation can trigger the development of a woman endometritis (inflammation of the inner lining of the uterus), as pathogens can get from the vagina through the open neck of the uterus. It is worth noting that endometriosis can develop without sexual relations.
In some cases, menstruation may last. This is due to the fact that the local blood supply may increase when the genitals excited. When propensity to bleed discharge can be resumed, even if previously stopped.
There is a small, but the chance of pregnancy. In some cases, ovulation may occur during menstruation, immediately after or twice during one cycle. In addition, capable of maintaining the viability of the spermatozoa in the female body 3 to 7 days, fertilization can occur. To avoid this, it is necessary to use contraception, even during menstruation.
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Basic rules and recommendations
Most doctors believe that sex during menstruation does not create any problems in compliance with the necessary hygienic requirements. Even during the "critical days" can make sex enjoyable and safe in all respects.
Recommended:
Use a barrier method of contraception. This condom can prevent unintended pregnancy and to protect a woman from getting an infection, but female sex organs is still vulnerable to the penetration of germs. Extreme care when engaging in sex during menstruation need to be new partners, as well as those who have the disease, sexually transmitted diseases. Menstrual blood environment is an excellent field for the growth and reproduction of pathogenic microbes.
Abstain from sexual intercourse for a time the most abundant secretions of a woman (usually the first 2-3 days of menstruation). Prolonged sexual intercourse with deep penetration can cause increased bleeding. Moreover, it is important to take into account aesthetic aspect. At the beginning or end of menstruation reason for refraining significantly less.
Just before intercourse and immediately after both partners should be very careful to hold the toilet of genitals.
Creative approach to the selection of places for sex. Bath or shower sensation and help diversify in cleanliness. If the choice was still on the bed, place a few towels and leave the hand wipes.
Not recommended:
Have sex during menstruation women with gynecological diseases (bacterial vaginosis, recurrent colpitis, thrush, etc.).
To conduct irrigation procedures when there is a monthly. At first glance, it seems that it can make you clean before intercourse, but even treatments to stop menstruating. Antibacterial agents (solutions for irrigation) completely washed out of the vagina not only sickness, but the normal flora. The natural flora is disturbed.
Practice during the month posture, promotes deep penetration. The best option - a classic "missionary" position, in which the man is on top. In this position, release the woman will not be as strong, will increase the probability of maintain maximum cleanliness.
Engage during menstruation anal sex. The risk of getting E. coli from the rectum to the genitals and the vagina. This can cause the development of the inflammatory process.
For the modern generation due to the possession of a large amount of knowledge of sex during menstruation - a more intuitive process. In any case, the decision must be balanced and reciprocal, to take into account the wishes of the partners, not prejudice and public opinion.
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Possible errors Women
Lasky intimate areas of men
Today, the absence of normal relations in the family, including sexually, is one of the main causes of divorce. Many wealthy couples stop intimate relations during the next few years after the beginning of their life together. What is the cause?
How to deliver a man pleasure, then to him there is a constant desire for intimacy?
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Possible errors Women
If a woman is ashamed even of the word "sex", then it will be hard to keep her man beside him. Therefore, clearly aware of their problems, it should work on yourself, check out the tips sexologists and psychologists, but rather go to them for advice. In this case, understanding and correctly assessing the situation, the woman we first learn to be relaxed, to desire intimacy with a man, get this unforgettable pleasure and delight the most beloved.
I do not induce man woman, accustomed to undress in the dark or under a blanket. It often begins with the sexual desire of visual perception. The man is a particular pleasure when a woman feels most relaxed, good command of his body, caring for them and gives them the opportunity to admire his favorite.
Do not be ashamed of your body. Man and so knows all the shortcomings of his beloved. Not every time, and not every garment can hide, for example, slightly bowed legs, full hips or tummy appeared. In this case, you can use the free cloaks and capes translucent. You should learn how to present themselves and allow the man most admired female body.
To give pleasure to your loved one may be different. Great start - an intimate massage. Not for nothing because it is such a massage is very popular in the East more than one millennium. Its secret lies in the proper use of women's hands, body and erogenous points in men. Initially, this process should be a pleasant man relax relaxed conversations, quiet music or foreplay. Then turn it over on his stomach and begin light stroking palms of the hands on the back and along the spine. It is used for the skillful women also caress her breasts and thighs, kissing and language.
A special treat male affection deliver arms in the occipital area of the head. The main thing, the movement should be smooth and calm, do not rush here. It is important that female touch to his body in any case is not interrupted. Further, leisurely must go to an active massage of the coccyx, buttocks and upper thighs down. Fondling the buttocks and thighs, can use light pinching, stroking and even poshlepyvaniya.
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Lasky intimate areas of men
After partner's body to relax as much as possible, you can gradually move to his genitals: fondling erogenous zone that can deliver special pleasure each representative of the stronger sex. And the woman herself is excited, caressing this area of the male body. Proper use and light touches of hands, lips, tongue kisses and female breasts will deliver an unforgettable experience for your loved one. If desired, such affection in the genital area may last for hours, but do not forget about the other parts of the body of a man.
The special approach requires the scrotum and testicles. Some men in these places adore light touch using the tongue, lips and fingertips hands. While others bring pleasure not strong compression and a soft nibbling those parts of the body. Then there are the perineum and anal area, which also refer to specific erogenous zones of men. In these areas there is a large number of nerve endings, so the women caress these areas gives the partner the maximum pleasure and a lot of pleasure.
Do not forget your partner during an intimate massage and caresses observe his elect. After all, the right massage should delight not only men but also women. So, in such a pleasant caresses should seek partners mutually.
During intimate massage primarily man himself discovering unexplored areas, bringing him great pleasure.
He learned a lot of new sites and areas of the body, hypersensitivity which did not even know.
So a man feels prostrate themselves before the power of gentle caresses the right partner. In bed with his beloved, he ceases to control himself, giving vent to his feelings, and receives from the proximity to his beloved maximum pleasure. The woman, in turn, recruited sensory experience that enables her to always give pleasure to his beloved. But also, in addition to new discoveries in the realm of the senses, the partners fill their relationship of trust, openness, desire for intimacy and warmth. In the future cohabitation between the lining proper relationship even in the everyday hustle and bustle.
It is important that long-term relationship, ossified in the routine, with such pleasure and caresses receive a new impetus and a surprising freshness. Massage made with great passion and tenderness, is able to please not only the body but also to stimulate positive emotions and feelings. Here, most importantly, you have to trust your own intuition and emotions, as well as to know when to obey the surging emotions of tenderness. The art of giving pleasure to the close person is no limit. We must be able to love, because intimacy - it is not just mechanical sex, but pleasant touch of hands, lips, kissing, which is all the tenderness and passion.
