- Loud modest holiday or family celebration?
- What do you give, love daddy?
What it means to be 60-year-old man? What is it - look at the world with a height of past years? What are the stronger sex experience in the day of the age "slightly over fifty" suddenly walk in seventh decade? Of course, it's very, very difficult. And probably painful. But our life is arranged just so, and therefore have to accept the reality of her dignity. Remember, as one of the heroines of the famous movie sang that "There is no bad weather," and, therefore, all that we assigned, you need to take with gratitude? Very wisely and correctly. But terribly unfair.
Modern 60-year-old man did not fit the image of sort of a pensioner in slippers and striped robe. He is full of strength and energy, often quite reasonable reason to be proud of personal accomplishments and successes, lives tend to follow the words of Mark Twain: "Age - is that there are in our thoughts. If you do not think about it - it is not. " And this is the right attitude to life, because that is the easiest to cross the sixty-year milestone.
And what's wrong with this advanced age? Children quite adult, the wife is still there, in a profession subjugated almost all the top. And what now? That is what is most difficult - when you do not know where to go and what to strive for more, because the personal desires of the map there is no vacant seats.
If your father has reached a milestone age, try to help him with dignity "take the high ground" and move forward. And the best at this time to distract him from the gloomy thoughts about the approaching old age, that time, which had always lacked, and now, with access to a well-deserved rest, will be very much. Find the pope an interesting case.
You can start a repair offer, to which all hands did not reach in any way, or do arrangement holiday home, read a good detective for the last couple of years, or to meet with old friends. Offer to work out in the fitness club, or horseback riding. Any such activity would distract from the sad thoughts of his father and introspection. And the anniversary, which looms on the horizon, will be the perfect occasion to bring together family members and close friends to celebrate your beloved dad with his 60th birthday.
Loud modest holiday or family celebration?
However, before you remove the banquet hall, cafe, and invite guests, is still found near the hero of the day, wherever he chose to mark such an important date. As it often symbolizes retirement, it is usually decided to organize a big celebration with an invitation to relatives, friends and colleagues. Often the hero of the day, and he offers to do so.
But there are cases where, because of its nature or mood, a man of 60 years insists on a modest home evening, when going to a narrow family circle of close friends. And how would you most like to arrange any celebration father status, be sure to consider his request and did not insist. After all, a comfortable state of the birthday should be your main aim.
But there is a way out of the situation in this case - does not necessarily hold Birthday apartment. Now there are lots of options to celebrate the lap of nature. No, it is not a banal picnic with barbecue. Or rather, about him as well, but in a slightly different interpretation. You can have a family leaving for good recreation center in the woods or by the river. Spend anniversary of Pope narrow family circle, but in a completely new scenery. Well, if the recreation center will offer opportunities for fishing, which is interested in your father. Go fishing with him - says, the reasons for laughter and jokes abound there. And the mood of this will be just fine.
Cook the meat on the grill and festive meals (all of which can also be ordered in advance at a good restaurant), cover with a beautiful holiday table, do not forget about the chic cake. Be sure to ignite it 60 candles in honor of my father every year of life. Think in advance about what will pronounce the words as congratulations. Do not look for ready-made templates that crowded the Internet. Be sure to come up with it yourself. Do not be afraid of touching phrases, do not be afraid to bring tears to the eyes of his father. Tell me about how much he has meant in your life and what you owe him.
Sincerity - that's the main thing that should sound in every word of your speech. For one thing, my father's reaction, you will understand how it is pleased with your congratulations. And when it gets dark, you can even arrange a fireworks display in honor of the hero of the day. Let this day be over fabulous and bright. After all, he symbolizes the beginning of a new life of your rich daddy. That life in which everything is a little bit different, but still happy.
If you have to celebrate the anniversary in the restaurant with all the attributes, relying in this case, here there are all possibilities for the manifestation of you creativity and imagination. Entrust the decoration of the hall, of course, better than the professionals. However, you can prepare yourself quite a sort of a wall newspaper or a collage, which will house Papa photos from the early years to the present day. Be sure to accompany them funny (does not hurt!) Comments.
Let all the stages of the achievements of your father will be made public in the face of friends, colleagues and relatives, and will serve as a proof that life hero of the day was not a single year lived in vain. A good excuse to make the birthday child the center of attention not only for the holiday table, but also outside it. Invite a leading professional who will not miss any of those present and gave the floor to the congratulations to everyone.
You can go even further and to arrange for his father themed evening dedicated to his youth. To do this, you will question as detailed as possible on how to dress up in those years, which were hairstyles that for meals and drinks were served during the holidays. Try to recreate the atmosphere of those years in the design of the room, the table and clothes of both the celebrant and guests previously warned them about the theme of the holiday. Pick the appropriate music. This unusual variant inspire and celebrate the anniversary of the Pope. It certainly will help you.
Subjects can be another. For example: a Hollywood party, English welcome autumn ball and so on. And you can do and the standard holiday, because in this case, its center will be the guest of honor. It is important to the mood of celebration, its atmosphere and sense. Look at my father. He smiles? His eyes shine? All right, so the anniversary was a success. You can relax and take a breath. Up to 70 years of age many more.
What do you give, love daddy?
If you have no idea what to give dad for 60 years, then go through a non-trivial. Presented to his father continued the anniversary of your kind. Give dad grandson. Or granddaughter. It's the most expensive and a surprise for your father. The status of the grandfather - is not the status of pensioner. Especially, if the grandfather is full of strength, health and energy, the best use of all this wealth - is, of course, grandchildren.
The news of the replenishment of the family fun you shake his depressed father. Before it opened new horizons and opportunities. Seriously, if you do not have children, think about them. Because now you have someone to help, not only to take a walk with a stroller, but also hedge in the event of an urgent need to go to work.
Let's talk about the gifts of another kind, more traditional, which also deserve to decorate the anniversary of your father. To begin to mentally imagine how dad lately spends leisure time. Did they change his hobbies? Will he continue to work and still go on a holiday? Did you know what the thing he wanted for the past few years but could not buy, because it did not have enough time, then the funds. You have a great opportunity to try himself as a modern fairy and fulfill the desire dear to you man.
So, gifts for father's can be divided into several categories, such as:
- Operation: it is, as usual, a set of proprietary and status Chancellery, high-quality leather, comfortable office chair, massager for back and neck, humidifier or air purifier, stylish table lamp and so on. Any of these things is capable of usefully serve as your father in the office and remind you.
- Home and garden: This includes all appliances on the plasma television to air conditioning and a satellite dish, furniture and interior design, garden tools, sets of power tools, lawn mowers and trimmers, inflatable pool with a complex system of filters, big swing, mini-brewery and a mini -koptilnyu and so on. Just look around and realize that it can make life easier and better dads.
- For the soul and rest: this category includes all of the items, one way or another related to hobbies celebrant. Give inflatable boat fisherman, the hunter will be pleased a new rifle and classy camouflage suit, a car enthusiast will appreciate the navigator or video-recording. Collector overjoyed replenishment of its valuable collections, art lovers will enjoy the possession of a good picture, the photographer present to a professional camera and so on. If you decide to choose something from the list, congratulations success will depend on how well you are aware of the interests of your father, how closely do you feel about the fact that it is present life.
- Sports and health: choice of gift for dad-athlete is unlimited. This modern and trendy trainer and heart rate monitor and bike for active walks and a heart rate monitor, and floor punching bag (excellent cardio-load) and so on.
- For self: here are the things or objects, on the development of which his father simply did not have enough time. For example, you can give a laptop, if your dad has not had the opportunity to deal with the Internet and play modern PC games. Or is there still such a thing as Interactive Designer, where with the help of a huge amount of detail you can create a variety of architectural forms. Suit and other items associated with the need to think and create. If Dad is perfectly familiar with the computer, then give him a program that teaches web design or template. It may well be that you will father from an unexpected quarter.
- Surprises and impressions - this is perhaps the most interesting category. The choice of such gifts in our time is limited only by imagination and the size of the purse. The easiest way to solve the question of what to give dad for 60 years, is handing his mom and vouchers for a good resort. Just do not forget that sudden changes in the climate are undesirable for such mature people. So do not choose exotic countries - the best ones that are close to our climate zone. Or give her father the opportunity to see the Old World: France, England, Italy or Germany. Gift weekend in one of these countries with the unique architecture and the magical atmosphere of the past.
Do not afford such a trip? Do not worry, because there is always a way out. Consider alternative holiday in good domestic sanatorium or if the father loves the mountain slopes, the ski resort. There is no way to travel because of work? Then presented as a gift subscription to the pool or a sports club, a certificate for teaching the game of golf, or curling, the opportunity to learn airbrushing or photography and so on. Just think, which of the following your father accept with pleasure.
Or maybe your dad has long wanted to have a pet? Fulfill his desire, by going to the kennel pedigree puppy or kitten. Dogs have been known to demand morning and evening walks that will be beneficial to the health of the host. They can also make great company on hunting or fishing, you have to be your father's devoted friend. Cats are different in that they have a beneficial effect on the property of the human nervous system, eliminate the negative, give peace and even normalize high blood pressure. Think about this unusual gift, but only if you are sure that it will be adopted by the hero of the day with joy and not become a burden.
It should be noted that whatever your congratulations on the 60th anniversary of the father, in any case, it must express the care and attention. After all, parents - is the most expensive people in each of our lives. And it often happens that adult children rarely indulge them with his presence, referring to the always busy and care. However, being so ruthlessly and relentlessly and, therefore, do not neglect the slightest opportunity once again to tell mom and dad how much you love them. And in this day as the anniversary of his father, just need to be near him with a gift or not, but always with sincere words of congratulations and a luxurious bouquet of flowers.
Jeanne Moreau - French actress and a very wise woman - once said: "Age does not protect you from love, but love protects you from age." Wonderful words that fully articulate what should be the attitude of our children, to parents, to those as long as possible together. After all, sometimes it is so important at least for a brief moment to return to the carefree childhood, heard the dad or mom will say, "Hello, my daughter! ".