Sex should be fun, but not discomfort. But in practice, a woman is often faced with the phenomenon of pain during sex. It often embarrassed to admit to anyone that there is a similar problem. Like, maybe more, and stop, it can bear. But the result of this attitude can be quite deplorable. Women frequently experience pain during sex, she has produced a kind of unconditioned reflex. Sex - the anticipation of pain - pain itself.
And even after the cause of the pain is found and corrected, the body at the moment of sexual intimacy derives from the "archives" Memory familiar sensations and outputs them. The result is a vicious circle - the match seems to be nothing, but at the same time, the woman feels the pain is real. Therefore, in no case should not ignore the problem - try to resolve it as soon as it first manifested itself.
And we start our conversation from the beginning of sexual life of women. The first time most women experience pain during defloration or, in simple terms, during the deprivation of virginity. And often the main cause of such pain becomes banal fear of women before sex. This fear leads to strong spasms of all muscles of the body, but primarily the muscles of the vagina.
Sometimes there are cases that the hymen is too thick, and with a huge number of nerve endings. But more often hymen is very thin and flexible, so at first sexual intercourse, it is not torn, and gently stretched. And that is why in most cases a sharp pain during defloration should not be. How, by the way, and bleeding - his absence could be called the norm rather than the disease. As you can see, most often the cause of pain becomes a banal fear.
Vaginismus is also a very widespread problem. Usually, the cause of vaginismus is a sad sexual experience in which a woman has experienced very unpleasant sensations. These negative associations are fixed in the subconscious and at the critical moment being felt.
Actually, the pain is not due to the penetration of the penis, and because of the strong contraction of the muscles of the vagina. By the way, like the pain of a woman there and gynecological examination. Vaginal muscles tighten so much that enter the mirror becomes almost impossible.
And in the first and in another situation, the mechanism of pain is the same - a strong muscle spasm. And because of this, and having pain and not because of the fact that the vagina gets a foreign body. The only way to deal with the problem in this situation would be a psychologist and sexologist. In principle, the time begun treatment issue is resolved fairly quickly.
In the event that during sex, a woman experiences discomfort in the vagina, such as burning, pain, itching, can be suspected in her presence of certain inflammatory processes. And the first thing to do in this situation - is to consult a gynecologist. Doctor will prescribe the necessary examinations and appropriate treatment.
In the treatment of sexual life must be abandoned or, at the very least, use a condom. By the way - the treatment is absolutely necessary to carry out both partners, regardless of what the results of analyzes of men. And pay attention! Do not immediately jumped on her husband, accusing him of all mortal sins - not just in the inflammatory process is evidence of treason.
In most cases, the development of the inflammatory process is triggered by the natural microflora for any organism: Staphylococcus, Escherichia coli, fungi. Being in their usual habitat, these microorganisms do not cause any problems. But falling in unusual places - for example, from the intestine into the vagina, they are beginning to multiply and lead to the development of inflammation. So do not look for the guilty, and you need as quickly as possible to begin treatment.
Also, many women are often worried about the pain in the abdomen during sex. And it is very likely that the cause of the pain is the presence of adhesions. Adhesions in all cases are the result of previously transferred inflammatory bowel or appendages. If the woman noticed the pain during intercourse, she should remember, but not if she had earlier periodic abdominal pain.
Doctors say that adhesions in the pelvic organs are present in the vast majority of adult women. Often, they do not bother the women and have no harm to their health. But in some cases the pain from adhesions makes itself felt it during sex - especially in certain positions. Incidentally, it was the right choice poses help minimize discomfort during sex.
In addition, it is necessary to seek help from a gynecologist. He will spend the necessary examination and prescribe treatment. Most often the problem can be solved with the help of physical therapy. But in some cases, if the adhesions particularly strong, the doctors have to resort to surgery. Incidentally, the same applies to a variety of injuries, fractures and joints, especially after a difficult birth.
Very often, the pain in the lower abdomen during sex is a consequence of such diseases as endometriosis. Endometriosis often seen spotting is not related to the menstrual cycle, and pain. Including pain during sex. Moreover, the pain of endometriosis are strongest in the middle of the menstrual cycle. And this pain is very strong - it often makes sexual intercourse practically impossible.
In the event that woman's sexual life is irregular, or if during sexual intercourse a woman is not getting an orgasm, she could face a very unpleasant phenomenon. Blood is constantly poured into the pelvic organs, and its proper outflow will occur. At first, the woman will be a feeling of heaviness in the lower abdomen, dragging pain after intercourse. Over time, this state leads to swelling of the vaginal walls, so - of pain already during the actual sex. And the pain can be very sharp.
Such a state is not just uncomfortable for the woman - it is a very negative effect on the general state of the female reproductive system. It can trigger the development of diseases such as breast, uterine fibroids, endometriosis, ovarian dysfunction and others. Therefore, in any case, do not leave the problem unattended - promptly consult a gynecologist, and if necessary - and the sex therapist.
In that case, if a woman says a lot of pain in the pelvic area, further enhances intercourse or gynecological examination, he gave up, fair to assume that a woman has pelvic nerves neuralgia. About the phenomenon of a simple man in the street, little is known, but the fact remains - is not only neuralgia intercostal or face.
Leave neuralgia without treatment in any case impossible. It is hardly possible, because the pain is very strong, even if the woman is in a state of complete rest. Pelvic nerves neuralgia is treated the same as any other neuralgia - physiotherapy, warming ointment, capsicum plasters. But it is better not to engage in self - contact your gynecologist, who reliably diagnose disease and prescribe the best treatment.
- Insufficient amount of grease
In the case of a woman during intercourse is allocated too little lubrication during intercourse can also be very uncomfortable feelings, and sometimes pain. In situations like this is to see a doctor, who will determine the cause and find a solution. You can also take advantage of special lubricants that are sold in pharmacies.
From what can not hurt?
Among women, some widespread misconceptions that can cause abdominal pain during sex. In order to dispel these myths, here we tell you about the most common ones:
You can often hear that the pain in the lower abdomen during intercourse is caused by erosion of the cervix is. But the doctors say that the physiological characteristics of the female body are such that cervical erosion sick simply can not. This means that you need to be examined and to reveal the true cause of the pain.
- Anatomically incompatible partners
Very often, pain during intercourse the woman blamed the discrepancy is the size of genitals partners. In fact, such is extremely rare - not more than 1% of all cases. Elastic tissue of the vagina so that by stretching the penis in a healthy woman's pain does not arise. Therefore, in any case, to determine the cause of pain is necessary as soon as possible address to the gynecologist.
In any case, the pain is always signal the body that it has something wrong. As you can see for yourself, the pain can testify to physical and psychological problems. And in fact, in either case, this phenomenon is not allowed to leave without attention, because any problem is easier to solve it in the early stages of its occurrence.
And the decision of such delicate issues tend to be complex. Solution gynecological problems, the stabilization of the psychological state, the help and support of a loved one - all these measures very soon will give a positive result. Yes, and a general survey of women also will not be superfluous, since all of the body is interconnected.
By the way, from the sexual partner it depends very, very much. If a woman trusts your loved one, then the treatment will be faster. And if you receive such support can not, think - perhaps next to you is not the hero of your novel? In any case - do not worry, you will succeed. And may your life be beautiful in all its manifestations!